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Sunday, September 7, 2025

Brokenness

Brokenness

By Patsy Norwood © 2025  All Rights Reserved!  Any and all commercial use of this study is prohibited!

… the kind of brokenness that you experience when your world lays crumbled at your feet …

when the pain is so profound it’s hard to breathe …

when you’re just numb …

when questions run through your mind … why me or why didn’t I see this coming? …

When you find yourself wondering and even asking … God, why did you allow this to happen?

The first two why’s, in reality, don’t have concrete answers, but the third one, ‘why did God allow this to happen,’ in my mind, has a clear and easy answer. It’s not because God is uncaring or distant, it’s because God gave mankind freewill to choose Him and His goodness and in so doing, He gave us freewill to choose to do evil as well.  It’s that simple, mankind as a whole and individually, gets to choose and when evil is chosen, people are hurt … sometimes devastatingly so.

One of many beautiful things about God though, is that when mankind does choose evil over good, He is still willing and ready to help us overcome.

Let’s look at what He tells us in His word about brokenness beginning in Psalm 34:18. Can we just let this beautiful passage soak in … 

Psalm 34:18 … The Lord is near to the broken hearted and saves the crushed in spirit.  (ESV)

This verse in context, is referring to those who are broken and crushed by the realization of sin in their lives; it’s written to those who are ready to obey God’s teachings, allowing Him to rescue and save them.  However, I don’t think it takes anything away from or adds to the image of God we see in this verse to apply it in the way we are using it.  God’s compassion shines through.  He is near, He cares and He rescues.  Does knowing this take the pain away from devastating brokenness, no, but it is comforting to know that God is aware and there and that makes the brokenness more bearable.

Let’s look at some more scriptures …

Psalm 147:3He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. (NASB)

What a tender and caring image of our Father this brings to mind.  He is willing to take His broken children and bind up their wounds.  How comforting is that!

Psalm 121: 1 – 3I will lift up my eyes to the hills—from whence comes my help? My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth.  He will not allow your foot to be moved; He who keeps you will not slumber. (NKJV)

What’s our role in healing from devastating brokenness?  We must look to God; we must acknowledge and know that He can and will help us through the brokenness.  We rest in the assurance that He watches over us 24/7 every day and night, and that He will not get tired of dealing with us/our pain and abandon us after a few days.

Do we always know what that care will look like, I can tell you that we will absolutely not always know, in fact, we very seldom know beforehand.  His care comes in small and big acts from others.  It comes from those who choose to walk this journey by our side, shoring us up when we feel like we can’t go on and it comes from faithful prayer warriors on our behalf.  (Sidenote:  this is one of many reasons we need to focus on being the hands and feet of Jesus while on this earth, God may be using us to help others through, sometimes silent, unbearable pain.)

Proverbs 3:5-6Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. (NKJV)

This is the hard part, trusting … not leaning on our own understanding.  The head may be willing, but the heart may have deep devastating wounds that are yet to heal.  We need to trust anyway with whatever amount of trust we can produce.  God knows and He understands. 

It helps to acknowledge God’s goodness as we travel this journey, in fact we are told to.  In our brokenness, sharing what God has done and or is doing for us might help someone else who hears our testimony.  It also serves as a reminder to us that God is working in the situation.

Isaiah 41:10Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not be afraid, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you, I will also help you, I will also uphold you with My righteous right hand.’ (NASB)

This is another hard part … not fearing … remembering that God is with us.  We need to take scriptures such as we are looking at today and commit them to memory, ‘write them on the door posts of our homes’ and hearts, always having them ready and before us to remind us that God is there, that He has not left us nor will He.

James 1:5But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. (NASB)

When we are so broken that we don’t know what to do, God wants us to ask Him for wisdom.  He wants us to ask Him for guidance and discernment to make the right and best decisions for the current scenario.  He assures us when we do, that He will liberally and without reproach give it to us.

Isaiah 58:11 …  And the Lord will continually guide you, and satisfy your desire in scorched places, and give strength to your bones; and you will be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water whose waters do not fail.  (NASB)

Make no mistake, this is a long and most difficult journey to travel, it is also a faith building journey and as we can see God is more than willing to travel it with us, if we’ll let Him.  Do you see what else this verse tells us; it tells us we can survive and even thrive again … you will be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water whose waters do not fail.

I have marked these scriptures in my Bible, and I would urge you to do the same.  If you have never experienced devastating brokenness and don’t feel this is relevant to your life right now, I would say, mark them in your Bible anyway.

Someday, somewhere God may place someone in your life that needs these promises to hold on to and in my humble opinion that’s reason enough to be ready to be the hands and feet of Jesus.

Here’s how I label and mark these scriptures in my Bible that makes them readily accessible for use when needed …

On a blank page in the front of my Bible, I write:

Brokenness:  Psalm 34:18 (B)  (The “B” is an identifier.  Each topic will have a different identifying letter.)

I then turn to Psalm 34:18 and at the end of the verse write the next verse:   Psalm 147:3 (B)

Before I leave Psalm 34:18 though I highlight, or you may prefer to underline the words “The Lord is near” "saves" and “broken hearted” and “crushed in spirit.”

I use the same format for the rest of the verses chaining them all together.

In addition, for Psalm 147:3, I highlight or underline the words, “He heals” and “brokenhearted” and “binds up their wounds.”  I want the things God does to jump off the page at me as soon as I see it!  In the margin next to the verse, I write “heals and binds up.”

For Psalm 121: 1-3, I highlight or underline “my help comes from the Lord” and “He who keeps you will not slumber.”  I want to be reminded as soon as my eyes are drawn to the words that God is not slack in His looking out for me.

Proverbs 3:5-6, I highlight or underline “Trust in the Lord” and “acknowledge His path” and “He will make straight your paths.”  Another assurance that God can make something from the chaos and pain.

Isaiah 41:10, I highlight or underline the entire verse.  In the margin next to the verse, I write “God’s Assurance.”

James 1:5, I highlight or underline “ask of God” and “gives to all generously and without reproach” and “it will be given to him.”  In the margin next to the verse, I write ‘there are no silly or insignificant questions or requests to/for God.”

Isaiah 58:11, I highlight or underline “the Lord will continually guide you.”  In the margin next to the verse, I write “God stays on the job 24/7!”  I also write in the margin next to the verse ‘hope.’  That’s what God is giving us, hope that we will survive and that life will be good again someday.

I hope this topic helps you or equips you to help someone else.

May God be glorified in all that we do!*

(Note:  the versions of the Bible used in this article are word for word translations.  Paraphrased editions of God’s word are man’s version, not God’s.  There is a difference so please choose the version of the Bible you use carefully.)

Until the next time!

patsy @ From This Heart of Mine

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