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Thursday, May 16, 2024

Mary of Bethany: Choosing the Better! ... Lesson 1

Mary of Bethany:  Choosing the Better!

By Patsy Norwood  © 2024  All Rights Reserved!

Lesson 1

Luke 10: 38-42 (NKJV)

Last week in our introduction, we laid the foundation, the groundwork and background for this study.  This week we’re going to jump right in keeping in mind what we learned last week.

Let’s get started …

38 Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home.

This scene most likely took place during a short visit to Jerusalem at the Feast of Dedication and we know from last week’s lesson that the name of the village was Bethany and that it was located about 2 miles outside of Jerusalem.

Who are the ‘they’ mentioned in this verse? In Luke 10:23, we see that Jesus’ disciples were with Him, did they accompany Him into the house of Mary, Martha and Lazarus or did Jesus’ steal away for a visit with this trio?  The Bible doesn’t tell us.

Just like that, Martha opens the door and invites Jesus in???  While researching this verse, I kept asking myself if Jesus knew Mary, Martha and Lazarus before He appeared at their door.  By Martha’s response in this verse, it seems He did.  In fact, it seems that they were all very close friends and comfortable with each other. 

Those thoughts led me to ponder how long they had known each other, that kind of intimacy in relationships doesn’t develop overnight, it takes time.  The Bible doesn’t give us any of those details and neither does any secular history that I’ve found.  However, taking into consideration what we learned about Jewish hospitality in the introduction, it seems highly possible and probable that their relationship was a long standing one.  Could a chance meeting have thrown them all together at some point in the past for the first time or could Mary, Martha and Lazarus have ‘heard’ about Jesus and wanting to learn more opened their home to Him and possibly His disciples?  We simply don’t know how long they had known each other or how they met.  What we do know though is that their relationship resulted in providing a place for Jesus to rest and feel comfortable in, a base to come and go from as needed and an oasis from the crowds.

39 And she had a sister called Mary, who was also seated at the Lord’s feet, and was listening to His word.

We jump from Jesus being welcomed at the door by Martha to Mary being seated at the Lord’s feet. (This also makes me think that Jesus’ relationship with Mary, Martha and Lazarus was not a new one.)

Did they know Jesus was coming for a visit?  Had someone come ahead to let Mary and Martha know that He was on his way to their house?  We don’t know, the Bible doesn’t tell us. 

Did you notice that this verse says ‘who was also seated at the Lord’s feet’ … was there someone else sitting at the Lord’s feet besides Mary?  Again, the Bible doesn’t tell us, but we know that Mary was there seemingly eager to soak up every word Jesus said.

‘Seated at the Lord’s feet’ could mean two things: (1) the location where Mary was seated and/or (2) listening and taking in everything that was being said by our Lord.  Personally, I think it was both.

40 But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do the serving by myself? Then tell her to help me.”

“Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do the serving by myself? Then tell her to help me.”  … this statement adds to my thinking that Mary, Martha, Lazarus and Jesus were not new acquaintances. I can’t image going up to a first time, new acquaintance in my home and asking that question in that manner, can you?

Not everyone was ‘seated at the Lord’s feet!’  Martha was in ‘HOSTESS’ mode and not happy that Mary was not, so much so, that she reprimanded Mary for not helping her right there in front of whoever might have been there.  Do you think Mary cringed at Martha’s words; I can’t help but wonder about how she took the rebuke from her sister?

I understand Martha’s heart for wanting to do the very best she could for the Lord, but I think this would have been one of those times when a different plan for feeding and caring for those present would have been better.

41 – 42  But the Lord answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; but only one thing is necessary; for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”

While Jesus didn’t agree or disagree with what Martha said, He did draw attention to the fact that Mary was attending to a higher and more important duty … making time for the word of the Lord.  Let that sink in!

This excerpt from the Coffman commentary on Luke sums up the message of this whole passage quite well …

Much of the failure of modern Christianity lies in the fact that Christians are busy with all kinds of things, many of them important and necessary, of course; but yet they have no time for the word of the Lord.

Again, let that sink in!

Looking back over this passage of Scripture with Mary in mind we see that:

She had a choice, and she chose the better.

She was reprimanded openly in front of others.

She was willing to take rebuke in order to sit at the Lord’s feet.

The Lord intervened on her behalf.

She loved and was dedicated to the Lord. 

She was eager to learn.

This week we saw Mary ‘choose the better’ at a supper in her home, next week, we’re going to see Mary ‘choose the better’ in a completely different situation. 

I hope you’ve enjoyed today's lesson.  Don't forget to leave a comment and if you're enjoying this study, please share the link with other ladies who you think might enjoy it as well.

Until the next class …

patsy @ From This Heart of Mine

Sources used for this study:

Various translations of the Holy Bible

Various commentaries

Dictionary of New Testament Background, Editors: Craig A Evans & Stanley E. Porter

Archaeological Study Bible

All the Women of the Bible by Edith Deen

Daughters of Eve by Lottie Beth Hobbs

Halley’s Bible Handbook by H. H. Halley

Who’s Who in the Bible by Philip Comfort & Walter A. Elwell

Thursday, May 9, 2024

Mary of Bethany: Choosing the Better!

Mary of Bethany:  Choosing the Better!

By Patsy Norwood  © 2024  All Rights Reserved!

Introduction and Background

Bethany (located in modern day Palestine) was a small village just outside of Jerusalem.  In John 11:18, we learn that it was actually about 2 miles outside of Jerusalem on the southeastern side of the Mount of Olives. Today, we would refer to it as a suburb of Jerusalem.

Jesus passed through Bethany several times on his way to and from Jerusalem where our lady of choice for this study lived along with her two siblings, Martha and Lazarus. Did they all live in the same house?  Secular history seems to indicate that they did and if we take into consideration the events recorded in John (which we’ll do later in the study), it does appear that they all belonged to one household. 

Speculation is that Martha was older than Mary and was more practical and unemotional.  Mary, on the other hand, was younger, impassioned, and imaginative.  Speculation goes on to include that Martha likely was a widow and that Mary had never married.

Whether speculation is correct or not, it's clear we are dealing with two opposite personalities. For the purposes of this study, we’re going to take note of their personality differences realizing that neither is wrong.  God uses both types, but depending on the circumstance, this circumstance in particular, one could be, in fact, better than the other.  (Sidenote:  Martha was not an unspiritual person, a study on her will quickly make that obvious.)

Indications are that Mary, Martha and Lazarus were somewhat wealthy evidenced by their owning a family tomb and having the ability to purchase costly ointment.  It seems that they were well-known as well.  (We’ll cover all of this later in the study.)

To help us better understand the back story/background of this study, we need to take a brief look at the history of Jewish hospitality. 

The following was taken from the Dictionary of New Testament Background, Editors Craig A. Evans & Stanley E. Porter:

Following the exile, most Jews lived outside of the Holy Land, and many of these made pilgrimages to Jerusalem.   At least one of the synagogues in Jerusalem was built in such a way as to address this situation; in an inscription, Theodotus claims that he built ‘the guesthouse and the rooms and the water supplies as an inn for those who have need when they come from abroad.’

Roman roads were built in Palestine, and inns offering hospitality for a fee appeared soon thereafter (Luke 10:34-35; see also 2:7).  Yet the emphasis in Judaism remained on the exercise of private hospitality, especially to aliens and strangers (Deut 10:17-19), as an obligation that was enjoined by the Torah (Lev 19:33-34) and underscored by the depiction of Yahweh as the protector of strangers.  Hospitality was viewed as a byproduct of personal piety toward God, and Josephus’s depiction of the pious Essenes accordingly gave emphasis to their hospitality.

To practice hospitality, therefore, was worthy of praise, even self-praise (Job 31:32), whereas the failure to do so evoked condemnation (Job 22:7), especially in circles where hospitality was regarded as superior to fasting (Is 58: 6-7).  For models of hospitality and inhospitality, Jews of the Greco-Roman period drew heavily on the Old Testament.

Could this attitude towards hospitality have been the starting point of the relationship Jesus had with Mary, Martha and Lazarus.  We know that Jesus, along with His disciples made many trips in, around, to and from Jerusalem.  They needed places to sleep, rest and get refreshed.  To me, it almost seems like the perfect beginning, what do you think?

Next week, we’ll open our Bible to Luke 10: 38-41 and dive in.  I hope you’re as excited about this study as I am!

I hope you’ve enjoyed today's lesson.  Don't forget to leave a comment and if you're enjoying this study, please share the link with other ladies who you think might enjoy it as well.

Until the next class …

patsy @ From This Heart of Mine

Sources used for this study:

Various translations of the Holy Bible

Various commentaries

Dictionary of New Testament Background, Editors: Craig A Evans & Stanley E. Porter

Archaeological Study Bible

All the Women of the Bible by Edith Deen

Daughters of Eve by Lottie Beth Hobbs

Halley’s Bible Handbook by H. H. Halley

Who’s Who in the Bible by Philip Comfort & Walter A. Elwell

Tuesday, May 7, 2024

Ladies Bible Class: Announcing the next class!

Dear ladies of God's Word,

While I have continued studying my Bible in other ways while I've been on break, I have missed digging deep into God's Word such as has been done in previous studies.  Deep Bible study is one of my happy places and I'm delighted to announce our next study is ready to begin!

Who did I chose ....


I hope you're as excited about this study as I am!  Our first class will be Thursday, May 9th when we'll start with the introduction.  As with our previous study, I'll post each lesson early on Thursday morning for the week.  This will give everyone time to read and respond at their convenience if they so desire.  I'll meet you back here then!

Please feel free to share with other ladies about our new study as well as links to previous studies.

Until Thursday!