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Saturday, September 20, 2025

Abigail: Beautiful, Intelligent, Wise, Prudent … and Honored by God … Lesson 1

By Patsy Norwood © 2025  All Rights Reserved!  Any and all commercial use of this study is prohibited!

I Samuel 25: 1 – 42; 27:3; 30: 1-18; II Samuel 2: 2-3; 3:3; 17:25; I Chronicles 2:16-17; 3:1

We could also add hospitable, risk-taker, wife, mother, brave, courageous, faithful, generous, humble, discerning and submissive to Abigail’s virtues.  That’s quite a description isn’t it and I can’t wait to share with you all the things I’ve learned about this woman of God.

But … I hate it when there’s a ‘but’ don’t you … but she was married to a man who was foolish, evil, wealthy, stubborn, selfish, full of himself, prideful and greedy.  In short, her husband was a scoundrel!

Have I piqued your interest, I hope so because the more I studied this woman, the more I wanted to learn.  God’s word is that way, isn’t it?  The more we study it the more we want to study it and oh, the strengthening of our faith and relationship with God that comes with spending time in His word, it is such a blessing!

Are you ready?  Let’s drop in on Abigail and the circumstances surrounding this glimpse of her life starting in I Samuel 25: 1 with a bit of background information …

Verse 1: Then Samuel died; and the Israelites gathered together and lamented for him and buried him at his home in Ramah. And David arose and went down to the Wilderness of Paran. 

Samuel: faithful, performer of priestly duties, God-honoring, prophet, and the last of the judges, dies.  Israel was heart-broken and gathered publicly to mourn him.  They ‘lamented’ for him.  I went to a Greek Lexicon to get a better meaning and explanation of the word ‘lament’ and this is what I found.  Lament: to tear the hair and beat the breasts; to wail; mourn.  It seems that the Israelites as a whole, loved Samuel and mourned his death deeply.

Josephus, a Jewish historian, said, “They wept for him a very great number of days, not looking on it as a sorrow for the death of another man, but as that in which they were all concerned He was a righteous man, and gentle in his nature, and on that account, his was very dear to God.

After Samuel’s death David thought it wise to move further southwest in fear that the death of Samuel might give King Saul renewed vigor to get rid of him.  A little background research on Saul and David gives us the reason David was on the run from Saul.  God had removed the kingship of His people from Saul because of his sin and appointed David as the next king.  However, Saul was still on the throne and so full of envy and jealously toward David that he tried to kill him.   In fact, Saul spent the rest of his life seeking a way to kill David.  You can read about the ongoing conflict between King Saul and David in I Samuel, chapters 18-31.

It’s here in his new location that David encounters a scoundrel and his lovely wife … the woman of whom our study is centered.

Verses 2 and 3:  Now there was a man in Maon whose business was in Carmel, and the man was very rich. He had three thousand sheep and a thousand goats. And he was shearing his sheep in Carmel.  The name of the man was Nabal, and the name of his wife Abigail. And she was a woman of good understanding and beautiful appearance; but the man was harsh and evil in his doings. He was of the house of Caleb.

Let’s see what these verses tell us about Nabal (the scoundrel) and Abigail (his lovely wife):

We’ll start with Nabal …

His name means “obstinate fool”…

He was rich and had 3000 sheep and 1000 goats …

He was shearing sheep in Carmel …

His home was in Carmel, his sheep and goats were located in the Wilderness of Maon where David had come after Samuel’s burial (the Wilderness of Maon was located next to the Wilderness of Paran) …

He was married to Abigail …

He was harsh and evil in his doings (overbearing, surly, mean, selfish, a drunkard, unmanageable, stubborn, ill-tempered, inhospitable)

He was of the house of Caleb (This Caleb is the same Caleb associated with Joshua and the conquering of the Promised Land.  When the Promised Land was divided among the tribes of Israel, Caleb was given the city of Hebron as his land inheritance.  Caleb was an honorable and godly man, but this ancestor of his, Nabal, was not.)

Now, let’s look at Abigail:

Her name means ‘father of joy’ or ‘cause of joy.’

She was married to Nabal …

She had good understanding (clever and intelligent)

She was beautiful.

One has to wonder how Abigail wound up married to such a man as Nabal.  Perhaps it was an arranged marriage.  On the outside looking in, a wealthy and settled man might be considered a good match for someone’s daughter during this time in history.  We don’t know, but it sure makes one wonder!

The stage is now set, and the characters are in place.

Nabal is in Carmel and its sheep shearing season, presumably spring.  It was a time of celebration and feasting; a major social event and it seems that Nabal was hosting a feast …

Abigail is presumably at their home likely busy with all the feast preparations and activities …

David with his band of mighty men/followers is in the area on the run from Saul.

We’re going to stop here and give us time to get all this fixed in our minds.  In our next lesson an issue arrives that’s going to change everyone’s lives.  Meet me back here next week as we’ll see Nabal display a sample of all his unpleasant ‘attributes!’

patsy @ From This Heart of Mine

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Sources used for this study:

Various translations of the Holy Bible

Various commentaries

Several trusted and biblically sound online sources

Dictionary of New Testament Background, Editors: Craig A Evans & Stanley E. Porter

Archaeological Study Bible

All the Women of the Bible by Edith Deen

Daughters of Eve by Lottie Beth Hobbs

Halley’s Bible Handbook by H. H. Halley 

 

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