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Thursday, June 26, 2025

Hagar ... alone & broken ... or was she?: Lesson 7 (Final lesson)

By Patsy Norwood © 2025  All Rights Reserved!  Any and all commercial use of this study is prohibited!

Genesis 12: 4-20; 16:1-15; 21:8-21 (NKJV)

Here we are at the last lesson in our study on Hagar, in lesson 6 we left Hagar and Ishmael lost and wandering in the desert, let’s see how it all ends …

Let’s begin with Genesis 21:15

Verses 15 - 16: When the water in the skin was used up, she left the boy under one of the bushes. Then she went and sat down opposite him, about a bowshot away, for she said, "Do not let me see the boy die." And she sat opposite him and lifted up her voice and wept.

Did you notice in verse 14 that Hagar and Ishmael got lost and wandered about in the wilderness of Beersheba?  This would explain their water running out.

Here’s another scene that’s just heart retching!  Out of water and desperate, Hagar could not bear to watch her son die of thirst, so she removed herself from his presence.  (Remember, if our numbering is correct, Ishmael is around 17 years of age now.)  He was likely severely dehydrated and weakened to the point of being unable to carry his own weight which means that Hagar would not have been able to carry/help him along either.  What anguish her mother’s heart must have been enduring.  (The area in which they were traveling was a desert which makes Ishmael’s condition more understandable … extreme heat, baking sun, likely on foot and little to no access to water are all ripe conditions for extreme dehydration.)

Verse 17: God heard the lad crying; and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, "What is the matter with you, Hagar? Do not fear, for God has heard the voice of the lad where he is. 

God heard … oh, how comforting that thought is!  God heard the lad crying, let that sink in … He hears the cry of His children today, too.  God hears!

God has a question for Hagar … ‘what is the matter with you?’  It’s as if God is saying, ‘have you forgotten how I took care of you before … why are you afraid now?’

It seems that Hagar in her anguish and distress had forgotten … do we do the same thing when our world lays crushed and crumbling at our feet.  It’s hard to hold on to God when the ashes of our lives are smoldering at our feet isn’t it …. this is where Hagar is now, and God meets her there!   Doesn’t that just make you smile!  God meets her there!  God meets us right where we are when we’re at the end of our ropes, too!

Verse 18:  "Arise, lift up the lad, and hold him by the hand, for I will make a great nation of him."

God is saying, ‘Get up and go to your son, I have plans for him too!’  Even though Ishmael was not the promised child through which the Messiah would come, God still cared for him and had a plan for him as well.

Today, we know the ‘great nation’ God was referring to as the Arabs.

Verse 19:  Then God opened her eyes and she saw a well of water; and she went and filled the skin with water and gave the lad a drink.

Hagar was likely dehydrated and exhausted as well.  Wandering around lost in an unfamiliar area is emotionally draining, not to mention her anguish over seeing the condition of her son.  All of this likely contributed to her not being aware of the nearby well.

When God made her aware of the well, she went and filled the skin with water and gave to her son.  Hagar was once again reminded that God saw and knew and that He had not abandoned them.

Verses 20—21:  God was with the lad, and he grew; and he lived in the wilderness and became an archer.  He lived in the wilderness of Paran, and his mother took a wife for him from the land of Egypt.

God was with Ishmael …

Ishmael became skilled with the bow and became an archer …

He lived in the wilderness of Paran (located in the Siani Peninsula in modern day Israel ) …

Hagar took a wife for him from Egypt.

In closing:

Mohammed, founder of Islam, was a descendant of Hagar

Arabs are descendants of the Ishmaelites (Ishmael) Hagar’s son.  God fulfilled His promise regarding Ishmael in that he became the father of the Arab nation that we know today.

The seed of all that’s wrong in the middle east conflict has its roots right here in this situation.

Abram and Sarai’s attempt to secure the ‘promised child’ was the result of a lack of faith in God.

One has to wonder if Abraham and Sarah could have realized the consequences of their decision and what it would set in motion, if they would have waited on God’s timing.   Do we think about future consequences of decisions we make?

Scripture doesn’t give us further details about Ishamel or Hagar’s life.

And finally …

What would Hagar tell us today about God if she could?  Would she tell us that

He is real …

He can be trusted …

He is to be obeyed …

We can do hard things when God is with us …

He sees …

He hears ...

He is there when our situation is not perfect …

He provides …

He is there when choices are taken away from us …  (God doesn’t prevent others nor us from making bad choices even when those choices hurt others.  He gives us all freewill!  When we look at our choices through the lives of others getting hurt, it should cause us to choose differently.)

What would Ishmael tell us:

You can trust God …

God hears our cries …

God loves the rejected …

God provides …

Don't fight God's plan ...

Nothing will deter God’s ultimate plan ...

What would Sarah tell us …

Keep the faith …

Wait on God’s timing …

Trust God’s timing …

Don’t try to help God …

Be patient …

Bad decisions have bad consequences …

It’s not about what I want.

What would Abraham tell us

Obedience to God must come first …

Even the faithful can stumble …

God knows best …

There are painful consequences to disobedience to God.

One more thing … we need to answer the question the very title of this study asks … was Hagar, broken and alone, really alone?  I hope by now you can see that she wasn’t, God was with her and provided a way for her.  Was it the way Hagar likely wanted, I feel safe in saying it wasn’t, but God was with her, He didn’t abandon her. 

Let that sink in … there are powerful lessons for us in this study on Hagar and the way God cared for her and Ishmael!  Lessons that we just might need to be reminded of every now and then!

I hope you have enjoyed this study and that you have gotten a closer glimpse of our great God.

As we close out this study on Hagar, our next study is in the works.  I'll let you know when it's ready to start posting ... likely closer to the fall season.

Until then I urge you to spend time in God’s Word daily …

patsy @ From This Heart of Mine

~ a place for women to gather and study God's Word ~

Sources used for this study:

Clipart from Adobe Stock

Various translations of the Holy Bible

Various commentaries

Several trusted and biblically sound online sources

Dictionary of New Testament Background, Editors: Craig A Evans & Stanley E. Porter

Archaeological Study Bible

All the Women of the Bible by Edith Deen

Daughters of Eve by Lottie Beth Hobbs

Halley’s Bible Handbook by H. H. Halley 

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